Qualitative Study of the Factors Affecting Marital Satisfaction from the Viewpoint of Divorced Women: Comparing the Attitudes of Women Before and After Marriage

Yasser  Rezapour Mirsaleh; Monireh  Saghachi Firoozabadi; Raziyeh  Amini

doi:10.18502/qjcr.v20i79.7340

Yasser Rezapour Mirsaleh Associate Professor Department of Counseling, Faculty of Humanities & Social Science, Ardakan University, Ardakan, Iran
Monireh Saghachi Firoozabadi Master of Counseling and Guidance, Education and Training department, Maybod, Iran
Raziyeh Amini Master of family counseling, Faculty of Humanities & Social Science, Ardakan University, Ardakan, Iran

DOI: https://doi.org/10.18502/qjcr.v20i79.7340

Keywords: Marital satisfaction, marriage, divorce

Abstract

Aim: The purpose of the present study was to qualitatively study the factors on marital satisfaction from the viewpoint of divorced women before and after marriage.

Methods: A qualitative study design based on grounded theory was used. Among the women who referred to the family court of Meybod city and were separated from their husbands, 12 women were selected to participate in the study. The sample size was selected based on theoretical saturation and data was obtained using a semi-structured deep interview.

Findings: Results show divorced women before their marriage, either had specific and postmodern viewpoint toward marital satisfaction, or had idealistic and superficial viewpoint about marital life considering a minimal number of problems. After divorce, they believed in concrete and specific criteria for achieving marital satisfaction. The factors affecting marital satisfaction from the viewpoints of the participants before their marriage were classified in concepts such as idealism, superficial, attitudinal understanding, non-specific attitude; after divorce these factors were classified in concepts such as behavior and emotion control, personal and family fitness, rational-intellectualism, management of relationships, and accountability. However, before marriage, divorced women believed in logical criteria, which were retained after divorce.

Conclusion: Based on the results, it can be concluded that change in postmodern, unrealistic, and idealistic ideas about marital satisfaction and the tendency to accept the realities of marital relationship can play an effective role in preventing divorce.